WHAT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT?
by Ludia Cho
Sexual Assault: an act in with a person engages in any type of sexual contact with another person without their consent or coerces/forces them into such act
Sexual Harassment vs. Sexual Assault
Sexual Harassment (unwanted sexual discrimination) includes:
making sexual jokes/comments
spreading false sexual rumors
catcalling/wolf-whistling
requesting for sexual favors
Sexual Assault includes:
rape
non-consensual sexual touching
forced kissing
Consent
Consent: giving permission to someone to do something. It can be easily explained with the acronym:
Freely Given: Consent should not be coerced! Both parties should use their own judgment when providing consent.
Reversible: Consent should be able to be withdrawn at any point in time without either party feeling at risk.
Informed: Consent is only valid when both parties know exactly what they’re consenting to.
Enthusiastic: Consent should be given wholeheartedly, if either party is unsure or doesn’t seem to want to give consent it’s better to step back and discuss how you both feel about the situation.
Specific: Consent given for an activity does not mean that consent is automatically given for the same activity in the future. Neither party is obligated to consent to something just because they’ve done it in the past.
Statistics
An American is sexually assaulted every 73 seconds.
Only 5 out of every 1000 perpetrators end up in prison
Of victims under the age of 18:
Every 9 minutes, a child is a victim of sexual assault.
Majority of these children (66%)are between ages 12 and 17.
36% of the victims of sexual assault and rape are under 12.
(https://www.rainn.org/statistics)
What to Do/Not to Do to a Victim/Survivor
What to Do:
Say:
I believe in you
It’s not your fault
You are not alone
I’m sorry this happened
Avoid judgment
Believe them
What Not to Do:
Victim blame
Take the perpetrator’s side
Ask about what the person was wearing
Resources/How to Help
National Sexual Assault Hotline:
available 24/7 at 1-800-656-4673
National Street Harassment Hotline:
available 24/7 at 855.897.5910
National Sexual Violence Resource Center:
https://www.nsvrc.org/
Victim Connect Resource Center:
https://victimconnect.org/resources/national-hotlines/